Some people are almost always in the shadows. One of them
died Monday night.
I looked for photos of Nicolas to print for the family. I
could find very few good ones of him, but I cropped one photo to get this
picture which represents his spirit.
Nicolas was a gentle soul.
Nicolas was a hard-working husband and father.
Twice I have had groups come and watch while he and his
sons and others made dulce – a sugar
product made by boiling the juice of sugar cane. He showed people the process,
invited them to participate, and made sure people had a chance to taste it.
Here’s a photo of Nicolas with Fr. Jon Seda from St. Thomas
and two other visitors this past January – Joey and Tyler. The photo is cloudy
because of the vapor from the boiling sugar cane.
I almost always saw him with a smile.
I don’t know how he was as a father, but his daughter and
two sons are incredible people. I imagine he could be strict in a gentle way –
but loving.
For all I could see, he was also a good husband. His wife,
Gloria, is a leader in the community and in the church. I don’t think he felt
threatened by a strong woman who was his wife. But Gloria is an extraordinary
woman, who is also quite humble.
Nicolas with Gloria, daughter, two sons, and son-in-law |
She is also a woman of faith. When I stopped by on Tuesday
morning during the wake, she spoke of how her faith sustained her, despite the
loss.
I will miss Nicolas when I visit Plan Grande – and I expect
that I will miss his presence when I move there later this year.
But his family will miss him even more – his wife Gloria,
his children, his grandson, and his brothers and sisters.
May God give them courage and comfort – and give Nicolas
rest. I hope Nicolas gets to share some dulce
with Jesus and Mary.
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